lessons in love...

i just talked with my cousin/classmate/friend over the phone earlier...we had this really serious and long talked that my ears were heating after i put down the phone...we talked about his lovelife and the problems he had with his girl..he asked for my advice...hehe..as usual..i really wonder why people frequently ask advice from me when it comes to those things..hehe..they may think i've had enough experienced by the way I talked and all..when in fact i'm as blind as they are when it comes to "love"...

for my entire 18 years i only had a boyfriend once..and it only lasted a month or so...i don't even know if i can consider it a relationship at all...but that experience surely thought me a lot of lessons:

1. Don't play over a guy's/girl's feelings.
2. Don't enter in a relationship if you're not yet ready.
3. Don't expect too much from your bf/gf coz you might end up being disappointed.
4. Be true to yourself and your feelings.
5. Break up with him/her formally.(not just through text/email/letter)
6. And lastly don't leave love letters anywhere in the house.(?!)

hehe..don't mind the last one..that only applies to me coz i'm not allowed to have a boyfriend at that time and geez!...the whole story about my-parents-finding-out was really awkward..and i don't wanna embarrass myself my stating it here...see it's been almost a year and a half since that break-up thingy..and right now i'm still single..i've learn from it and i don't want to commit the same mistake again...besides i'm busy with school and i enjoy the feeling of being single...you can flirt and acquire as many boylet as you can without worrying or feeling guilty...*grins* i don't wanna bother myself looking for "love"..coz i know it will come in God's own time..right now i'm enjoying my self of what i have and try not to think much of those that i don't..

my experiences may not be that great but the lessons i've learned are more than enough...i guess thatmakes me worthy to give advices to my friends...hehe..^_^ (? well i hope so?)